AFFAIRS WITH MARRIED WOMAN
81getting into a deep relationship with married woman
I think anybody who sees the title will snigger at it openly may be in the presence of others or his peers to "keep up his gentleman image" but when alone will come back to this hub to read it to know "what it says ?". The curiosity itself suggests its popularity but not many have the guts to own their weaknesses or likes and dislikes. Usually "l'affaire" means it is understood that it is a "skeleton in a man's cupboard" If this is the case with men think about women who get into this kind of relationships
I would like to talk about men having "affairs with married women" - so one point is clear- there is no question about the man's marital status and that plays no role here too. Generally women are very careful and cautitious when they get into this kind of relationships which are "generally not acccepted by the society as acts that decent cultured women do" I hope you will agree with me on that.
If one gets into a real statistics we will find out that there are more number of married women get into extra marital relationships than married men. Yes its true. Marriage is a gamble and anybody can be the loser. We are not sure who is the person who is going to rock the boat.May be because I am a woman I can think of marriages from a woman's point of view. I know the pot holes where a woman loses her balance and ends up in a relationship which she knows that if it comes out it will be an eruption of emotions.
It's not that this piece is going to be totally "feminine oriented" but a slight prediliction for women.I can't help it because after all I am a woman you see. Actually when women get into affairs there is definetely a strong reason behind it because they know for certain that this is not the right thing to do. They also know that once the matter leaks out their reputation will become a question mark even among her peers especially her children to whom she is answerably socially, morally and emotionally. Knowing all these if a woman gets into an affair then you should realize that she must have been driven to it. If you drive a woman mad against the wall then the only option left to her is jump over it -though it may be morally and socially wrong.
I think that with every marriage "sexual or physical attraction" wanes away as time passes and children come in and a sort of boredom creeps in . This mainly happens with women who has a lot of money to blow and has nothing concrete to do.Such women are generally social butterflies and regular party goers where they can easily hook a man of their choice. Again in this case too some women would prefer it to be just a "fling" with no strings attached to it and this case is very very safe for men who develop a short lived romance with these women.
But when we make recess into a woman's mind especially a woman who has got into a serious relationship with a man and that to with the husband around you must really understand that there is definitely a strong reason behind this relationship. No intelligent would like to jeoparadise her blissful married life with kids unless other wise this relationship gives her the comfort that she cannot get from her spouse. This is the first and foremost factor and I am sure a good majority of you will accept my point.
"Fraility thy name is woman" said Shakespeare and seldom does he fail in etching female characters. Yes women are fragile and what is wrong in being fragile - after all we are the ones who created this world of men and women by asking Adam to eat that fateful apple. We want to be loved, caressed, cajoled with hugs and kisses all the time. These are not silly things but are physical manifestations of love. Love has several languages and one is of course the physical attraction. Every woman likes to be pampered in one way or the other and why deny her that?
The last thing a woman can tolerate from her marriage is indifference. Even minute things whether this color suits her or not , whether the trinkets go with her dress or not do matter to her. And my question is why should it not? No dictionary in the world says "marriage is for producing babies" and this can be done without marriage too if the couple prefers to lead a bohemian way of living.
It is indeed ironical that the man who gets involved with married are unknowingly getting into a quagmire from which they can never extricate themselves. FIrstly a married woman getting into a relationship with another man ( adulterous relationship) must be headstrong and knows what she wants and how to get it too. If it is an ordinary fling also means that it is going to bite into the man's purse and parsimony is the last thing a girl friend accepts in a man. Another danger is married women once they get into a serious relationship with a man will cling on to him, become possessive about him ( again an emotionally danger signal) and does not allow him out of her sight even for a while and tries to keep him tied to her apron strings. Things become worse if the woman develops a kind of committment toward the man because she will expect the man to reciprocate the same emotion and feelings.
And this actually becomes the breaking point because there is a difference of commttment level between a man and a woman. A woman's committment toward anything or anybody is nearly cent per cent whereas you cannot expect the same level from a man. This is not a criticism but just that they are made that way. When the relationship reaches this crucial level women tend to go to extreme steps like getting addicted to alchohol, smoking or abusing sleeping pills or may plunge into a deep depression.
My suggestion is a favor I am asking everyman all over the world. Never have flings- it may be fun for you but it is a serious affair for a woman. Never go to the level of physical relationship with a married woman because for you it may be "just one more" but for her a moment she would cherish for her life time. Never play with a woman's emotions becuase for you it is just a joke but for her it leaves a deep dent which can never be filled by anything except your life which is not possible when you are not married. Beware of married women -do not barge into their lives please.
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Your words are true. I am going throught this right now. I had an affair and I feel so horrible about being extremely obessed with the guy. However, I cant help myself. And though he says things where you can tell he wishes I was single, his actions sometimes dont reflect that.
I agree. He makes me think he wants me because we have been in an emotional affair for 16 months...but directly says to me he can't leave his wife because she is ill/depressed. The reason he NEEDS me. We have "broken up" more times than I can count...and you are right, I always am the one who goes back telling him I miss him...then he acts all happy that I did. But...nothing ever happens physically. there was kissing and hand holding in the beginning, but he says he can't see me anymore because it is too difficult for him to want me so badly and still do the right thing for his marriage. I do think he has feelings for me, but is afraid to admit that for fear that I may go over the edge and say something to his wife? I don't know. I would never do that. I want out so badly...but miss him so much when I have no contact with him. I've made it as long as 2 weeks...then I cave. HELP!!
I think my affair is over. My married lady saw me with another woman. I didn't tell her I was spending time with this other woman (a long time friend). She is upset and I don't blame her. I lied and held the truth from her.
Still I wonder why all this is happening. The relationship with this married woman started out as just friends but crossed the line after some months. Her trouble with her "room mate" husband opened the door for me. She was not happy.
Nearly seven years later, I wondered if she ever would leave her situation. He made sufficient money to provide her with material things but they had seperate bedrooms. He didn't seem to care about her. Their kids were grown and it seemed the time could have been right for a clean break. Not to be...maybe that's why I started looking at my options. Still I loved her and valued our time together.
My long time friend lost her husband a year ago (my wife passed over seven years)and I thought maybe this could be a possiblity and wanted to see if we were compatable. We met and spent time together. Maybe this could work.
I still would prefer the married one because we have such a great time together but she is married and ten years from now will things be the same.
Still I need to take the responsibility that I messed things up by wanting more than she could give and not telling the truth. Maybe this is happening for a reason and I need to grow up and accept that this relationship was never going to go anywhere.
Guess I need to move on and spend some time with myself and do some soul searching.
Sorry for the long message
There is something really wrong with a woman that has an affair with a married man knowing he is married. I understand that some women sleep with a man so fast they didn't have time to notice he was married, but women who know and still do it have serious self esteem issues. If you have any self confidence at all you would not want to go as far as have sex with a married man. Flirting and the chase is one thing because women like challenges too. But, when women go that far...they have some serious issues that need to be handled. I have no sorrow for a woman who get's hurt from sleeping with a married man. The wife of the married man is hurt thousands times more and did nothing to deserve it. Women who hurt other women in such a way and don't even know them deserve whatever bad karma comes their way.
There is something really wrong with a woman that has an affair with a married man knowing he is married. I understand that some women sleep with a man so fast they didn't have time to notice he was married, but women who know and still do it have serious self esteem issues. If you have any self confidence at all you would not want to go as far as have sex with a married man. Flirting and the chase is one thing because women like challenges too. But, when women go that far...they have some serious issues that need to be handled. I have no sorrow for a woman who get's hurt from sleeping with a married man. The wife of the married man is hurt thousands times more and did nothing to deserve it. Women who hurt other women in such a way and don't even know them deserve whatever bad karma comes their way.
nice article, most probably from an experienced who had suffered a trauma
I came across this article because I have been doing a great deal of research on this matter because I a man whose wife has cheated on him. I am an active duty military service member and between deployments and everything else that goes along with being in the military I have been gone for most of the last four years. I know that everyone thinks soldiers all cheat on their wives and many of us do but I was faithful to my spouse (maybe foolishly so). She confessed and wants to work it out but I am really hurt by this betrayal and honestly do not know if I will ever be able to trust her again. The men (thats right she had two one night stands...she says it was two) were not obligated to me, they did not vow to be faithful to me, she did. Ladies be careful how you flirt with dangerous situations, my wife says she just got caught up with these men because she was already so lonely and things got out of control. Men lets try to be stronger and resist temptation (its not easy but I did it). Marriage is precious and although it is not easy it is worth it to try and do the right thing especially if you have children. I have two ages 12 and 6 and they do not deserve to be hurt because of my wifes weakness. Please pray for me and my family because as a result of this infidelity we are going through a really hard time and may not make it through this.
i agree with melissa. single women tend to get into a relationship with a man they don't know well. it really hurts toknow that you are cheated by your partner. you will feel that you are the most pitiful wife on earth. just yesterday i found out that he's cheating on me for the third time. i really don't know his reason for doing this to me. I've asked him a couple of times but he always tells me that it's his fault not mine. He tells me also that i'm a good wife to him a good mother to our 3 kids.but im not contented to his answer... please give me an advice. im happy to share what i'm going through right now because this eases the pain.
I wish she was single. But she is not. All I know is that I have feelings for her. Until my heart explodes and it might or she ends the affection I will continue to need her.
I disagree with some of the article it says nothing about how bad a man can be hurt that the woman is having and affair with. I am such the man in that I had an affair with a married woman and they way we talk was we were going to have a future and now it is over. She wanted to remain friends but it hurts way to much knowing I will never have her so I ended it.
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What I'm missing here..is the concept of people growing apart over time..losing their identity..being held to standards from a previous generation. What of the married woman who feels taken for granted because she is? What of the married woman who wants to grow..self improve and gets mocked for wanting to? What of the married woman who feels trapped? What of the married woman who sacrifices her own needs for her children and then finally realizes..what her life will be like when they are out on their own? I'll tell you what happens. Society in general makes her feel a failure..and if she has an affair, it's a terrible..terrible thing..when she isn't the one who's failed. People make mistakes every day. People can take years to recognize that in a marriage. But when a marriage turns into apathy..and unhappiness..she's still expected to suffer in silence. And if she finds a man that understands that you shouldn't have to settle..to suffer like that..and understands why you should always do things to not become complacent in a relationship..why shouldn't she hold on to it for all it's worth? It amazes me how affairs always tend to be so trivialized and condemed. And how you never hear about the ones that open a person's eyes to the fact that you don't have to settle..that it is alright to dream. And why you never hear about the good that can become of one.
I once was in an affair with a married woman. We always spoke of being together and having a future. Just today she ended stating she wanted to stay with her husband. I always wonder if i did anything wrong to make her choose him instead of me.
im in a relationship wit a married women i live wit her and her husband she says she loves and cares for me and i ask her how can you when you tell him the same thing you tell me here lately she has become so possesive she dont want me goin nowhere without her or doin anything without her she says that she only loves him and its hard to leave someone after 8 years of marriage even tho she claims to be in love with me wat do i do she want let me go
Is hard, I married a girl that was divorcing, i really liked her, this was almost 3 years ago and everyday I think about her. It may be somenthing demonic and dark, but man, I really enjoyed her for 3 months, from all the girls that I had in my life that one is the one that I liked the most, and I had a lot, but her, ufff, I miss her a lot, after 3 months she said that the economy was really bad, she couldnt make it on her own , and she was going trought a divorce so is hard just to live with someone else. She claimed to love me so much, that she wish she was single, and I wish she was too, I really love her, any woman that looks like her I like her im obsessed with her, and is sad, im young and handsome and is been so hard to get over this subject.
She came back to her husband and I havent see her since, I wonder if she misses me like I do, Im sure about that but I have to let her go, if I see her Im afraid that we may start seeing each other again, is my feeling, the chemestry between us is to much.
I hope that God introduce me someone that I like just like I used to like her, sooo much,
Is so adictive that I have good womans in my life and I am so not interested, Im stuck on this woman
My counsel? dont start a forbidden relationship, is bad, is addictive, obsessive, and can end up in disgrace
I suggest to seek God and the teaching of Christ, is the only thing that makes me overcome this subject little by little, I love u all........
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You definitely have an interesting point of view, but here is my experience. I've had no less then four different relationships with married women. I don't go searching for them...they just kind of happen. Each time I swear to myself that I am never getting into an affair again. Two of them turned out the way you described, and three out of the four had children involved. The first two women were clingy and vulnerable. I really liked them too. They just wanted way more than I could give them. I didn't want to be a replacement husband. Your post does well to explain their particular dilemma. The other two, however, were almost completely the opposite. They were definitely driven into the affair for one reason or the other. One was a lack of "physical" relationship and the other just felt like she couldn't take her husband anymore. I cared for both of these women deeply. They didn't seem to want anything more than the excitement of the fling and the sex (accompanied by toe curling orgasms, I might add). All of the "physical manifestations of love" that you described were present in our relationship. When it came down to it though, they just used me for sex. I liked it at first ( I am a man after all), but after a while I couldn't help but develop feelings for them. They were pretty cool women. They both let me know in no uncertain terms, in the end, that I was simply for fun and as much fun as I was and how great our relationship could be, they wanted their security blankets...I mean husbands and they could continue to have fun with someone else on the side.
Moral of the story. Women have flings too, they toy with men's emotions in just the same respect, and it is really the individual feelings or the feelings they have for an individual that are going to determine the outcome of any particular relationship. I would much rather be on the side that uses a married woman for a good bang than the good bang that gets kicked to the curb for developing feelings.
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i think the views discussed by you (writer) may be true. but for a moment if any man or woman is unsatisfied from spouse, what's remedy she/he has? I know it is a social evil eventhough i have committed a mistake . i m having relationship with a married woman having a child interesting thing is that i m also married having 2 children. 4 yrs have been lapsed, we crossed all limits but now it has become very difficult to continue as it started imputing my reputation n prestige. But prblm is i can not forget her i m trying my level best to do and i invite suggestions, what i should do?
I also slept with a married woman, just one night, I met her in a club, she called me the next night, we met and she came to my place - she was a tourist, we were communicating by mail and whenever she is in the neighborhood (europe) she tells me to meet her, she will be here again and I would like to meet her again, it looks like she has enough money and she is a bit bored and I think its ok, I dont have any feelings for her but sexual attraction (and she also), the only thing that I am thinking about is her husband, but who knows may be he treats her really bed, Im single and she is after me so I guess she is the responsible, It looks like I am her toy but its ok for now, please comment, thanks
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This article assumes innocence for the Woman. The single man (or Woman) is the victim here. If she or he has no intention of leaving their relationship, then it is a form of hatred trying to capture another humans heart and soul for your own self gratification. An attractive young woman can easily ensnare a lonely young man. Sex is everywhere and men are visually motivated.
Same goes for men who pursue these kinds of relationships..yes that word nobody says anymore (evil)
"taking away another persons well being for your own personal pleasure"
The Children are ALWAYS the victims here.
I had a fling with a married girl but it wasn't that involved. She was also a tourist from California.I work in Vegas. And I met her when she was vacationing with her husband. She would come to my place of employemt and we would flirt heavily. Her husband would go do his own thing. But in the end the only thing I got from her was a kiss. Then she just sort of ditched me. I tried to contact her on her facebook and she just ignores me. I found out through her Facebook friends that her husband doesn't cheat on her but he is kinda of a jerk. They been toghether for a while and he is not very nice to her kid from a prev marriage . He is also very indiferent to her. Maybe it's true that women want a man who knows how to talk to her. She told me I made her feel beautiful . But she never told me anything about no husband or even about her having a child . I was totally in the dark about this woman . I always been the casanova and thought this would just be another girl I was gonna hook up with. But I ended up being the one kinda of obsessed with her. It's like she put a spell on me I can't get her out of my head.
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i'm a single man.i'm in a relationship with a married woman who has a 7 years old child too.as a matter of fact i knew her as the love of my life since 5 years before her marriage.we could not get married together because of the social issues.and i never forget her for about 8 years after her marriage although i walked out of her life.but now this love relationship starts about 2 years ago again and since then i'm with her by her will as she starts it.i'm dying for her and she is the same but she has a life with a reasonable man and a child and she has no reasonable reason(socially)to leave that life.i can distinguish that how hard it is for her to continue this.morally she cant be with me and emotionally she wants to be.i loved her about 15 years (5 years before her husband even know her).i dont want her to be hurt.it doesnt matter that i'm a victim.what should i do for her.if i quit,she will hurt.if i dont she will hurt.what should i do for her not for myself?
"This mainly happens with women who has a lot of money to blow and has nothing concrete to do."
should be
This mainly happens with women who have a lot of money to blow and have nothing concrete to do.
reza its the same with me what should i do? My love got married to another man because of financial situation I went through, she has a 3 year old Kid, I met her again and its not just because i wanted to meet her. We met in a place, exchanged contact information and then we started dating again, We have sex regularly now when her husband is not around. We have quarrels as I Love her so much and wanted her to be in My life and she has one obligations i.e Social stigma and husband trying hard to earn money for them (Pity Here). Her husband had affairs but it was before marriage. She came to know later. she loves me a lot, Adores me, but its just one thing Why Can' t she come along with me? whats wrong? I Love her even before she got married and now too after Marriage.
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I married a BAD man, and had to stay to see him through a difficult time because we share a child, and for other reasons too lengthy to list. During this time, I met someone that was a family friend, but it grew into more. I regret nothing and sure as hell don't feel guilty, but I couldn't agree more with your last paragraph. In fact, I appreciate it so much. I don't know what to make of the time that I had with the man that I really loved, what it meant in the scheme of my life, I just know that I was infinitely happy and each memory is seared in my mind and soul. Having to grieve the loss of those moments, and him, in private, is an enormous undertaking. Yes, I was technically married, but I am not a bad person, and the man that I got involved with was no more a bad man that someone taking in a stray cat that had been abused and starved by it's owners. He gave me sunshine and smiles and fullness and happiness, however fleeting. I don't wish that he'd steered clear of me, but I don't think either one of us realized how much he meant to me, and would continue to mean to me.
I have been married for 12 years. My husband and I have truly out grown each other. We are at a point in the relationship that he has his own bedroom. When he touches me I feel nothing. I love him but not the love a wife has for her husband. I have been in a strong relationship with a single guy for about 3 months. He makes me feel totally the opposite of my husband. The feelings I have for my husband started about 4 years ago so I can't say that this new found relationship is why I feel so detached from my spouse. My single friend and I have a lot in common. We like to do the same things and can talk about anything. Problem with this is feelings are starting to develop between us. He questions my actions and I am very jealous of a lady that he was seeing before me. I hate the idea of him being with her. These are things that we have lately been having heated discussions about.I had no idea that the relationship would lead up to this point. I really went in with the mind set of flirting as I have done before and moving on. Got Hooked.
Theres nothing wrong if you both love each other and plan on ending marriage.
its a very nice discussion..about life..i appreciate everyone..but men too have very hard and deep feel towards women..even the women is married..i too loved a girl..mine is different story..girl got married by love marriage..they had 3 years of married life...i met this girl in my proffession..1 year back..but she expressed her love..just two four months back..first i just thought about it and finally ..i loved her deeply and i also asked a question....u got love marriage and then why u are loving me again...she answered...i never met a person like u before..if i met u befor..i will not miss u..it happened late in my life..i offered her to come with me ..i will marry her..she also loved me...truly..but she is afraid of his family and her husband as their marriage is love marriage and..what the society will think and what her husband will do...she is thinking of her husband also...i asked ..whenu care for ur husabnd..u r still in love with him..so dont misslead ur life...go ahead with ur life..but she is telling that she cares for her husband..but she is loving more about me..she is in a position to do nothing...but she is asking me to stay with her..for life long like this.....................but ia m asking ..how a truly loved guy can share bare this situation..if she loves me truly ..she would have come with me...but why..she dragged me in..i am not able get out of it and she showing lots of love on me..but she is telling that she cant come with me.....then i told her to leave me..i a cant lead this life and i cant bare when u are shared by someone....so its diffucult for the guys also to get out of this type of relation........then why this girls are showing love towards us..whne they dont have dare to come and live with us..
It's painful... I'm a married woman who's been involved with a married man I work with. The sex amazing- hes made me feel alive, interesting, sexy, beautiful. We're trying to wind down and stop. I'm not his first affair... He's been honest about it. I see him flirt and saw him leave a little note for a female coworker. When it all started between us I remember how those notes made me feel. Now I feel jealous, crazy unsure of myself and it just plain hurts.... How to let go and disconnect? My emotional investment became much more that I ever intended or expected. It also distracted me from the difficulties my husband and I are having. Now I just feel no self-worth, needy, jealous, impatient, insecure, and question everything. Want to let go but can't seem to make it.
I agree with Kate, I'm currently experiencing exactly that. please help. I want out but its very difficult.
I can relate very well to both Avalon and Kate. I'm going through this now. I want to let go of him. But it’s very painful. I have been both sexually and emotionally involved with this guy for almost a year now. We are both married. For the past few months he has been telling me that he wants out, he can’t continue with the affair, he feels guilt and bad about himself. We always agree on deadlines for the end, but somehow he will try and cut me off before that time and that is very hurting to me. I want to let go of him but I still love him, I'm still very much emotional connected to him and I just wish he can see that. When he’s referring to our relationship, he sees it as something that should be easily quenched. I have become cling and possessive of him. I’m worried about this; It’s changing me in a bad way. I’m very depressed and unhappy. I want to end this in a peaceful way, that’s the only way that it will be over for me. we both did not see this coming when we started the relationship, I thought we could end it at any point but I got hooked in a bad way. Please help.
hi i already expressed my feel to wards married girl..i loved her madly and we got caught by her husaband and they tried to kill me...so and so happened in these two months..but i still love her and she is normal an leading her normal life with his husabnd and get separated from his husband as he is torturing her...then i contacted her and i want to take her away and lead life...but she told that i am her second option ...if her husband comes back and promises that he will not hurt her and see her well..she wants to lead the life with her husband and she dont need me...i was hurted alot and i asked is that iam second option..she answered if his husband gives divorce to her ..then she will think about me and ahe is not ready to come with me.....and told that i am secondary option....my heart got bursted..because when we r in relation..she told that ..she will come with out thinking anything if i was ready....i am very good engineer in communication sector..my age is around 26..and her is 28...she is bigger than me ..but i loved her..she cheated me....she wants her husband and she is asking to be intouch for lifelong...as she will not be able to live with out hearing my voice....and sheis crying alot ..that she missed me....what is this....????i am not able to get out of this..i am mad about her..but up to me his husband is important to her and not me...as she is telling her husaband is loving her alot and he is only not able to bear her cheating....then why she dragged me in to her love.....i did nt entered any girl life still before her....i am atopper at my education level...love is love at any time..married woman or anything..i showed it and i really want to gave her life because i thought because of me she is facing problem....but she is not interested on me..she is thinking me as secondary option....if she really loved me..she might have asked me to take her anywher or otherwise can we both die together...but she is not..i got cheated badly..my life affected badly....i am not able forgot her..i love her still my last breath..but i will never accept again her...i loved my previous darling..now she is changed...i have expressed my feelings ..sorry ....guys ..so dont be in this type relation as deeep and strong as this relations will not stand forever...if u like each other well then go ahead..dare to swim the ocean with her,...be ure life with her..dont get it expanded and dont trust girls too much...i dont mean all of them...but my life is completely disturbed...and i am not normal...so i want to tell u..any one of u might face the same situation..so pls be carefull and end it with a smooth way and dont be deep...i am mad forher..what can ido..she rejected..me...she dragged me in ...and left me..
if someone is married, you have to stay away. they have to solved the marriage problems or divorce. anyone can fall in love with anyone. you have to have boundaries for yourself and be STRONG. hope this helps
I also looked to keep the relation ship with a married women.Whose husband is in jail for a year. Pl opine.
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Most dangerous thing one can do. I've been involved with three, the first emotionally, the second and third physically, but no sex. That's going too far and it's disastrous. It's become unavoidable for me, the more I stayed away and swore oaths, the worse it got. Never thought my life would come down to such at 30, having intense relationships in the past, it's hard to form new ones now. Just days ago, I met a childhood sweetheart, former lover, whose married with a kid and living extremely successful abroad. After years of rejecting her pleas to meet, I gave in for the closure, and I do mean 7 long years, we had a great time, but now I'm destroyed for the fact that I cheated in my mind, my soul everything. I warned her, corrected her, pleaded with her in the past that it would be unwise, but she seems to have lost her once strong, spiritual background, one of the prices to pay for living in Western countries. As for me, I tried, have gotten spiritual and what not, but when it's there beckoning forever, almost no man can resist it's charm and temptation. My only salvation is that there was no sex with her, ALTHOUGH SHE WANTED IT BAD. I know my faults and weaknesses for leaving her, but there is a reason why I'm an ex and still single. Horrible place to be as you start getting older. i've always been the one to warn others about married women, yet I fell hard three strikes in a row. Now I'm lost, confused, huge amounts of grief and guilt and am being destroyed from deep within. It's the worse thing a single man can do with his life. The scarier thing is the fact that many married women of all ages vibe me in a way, that is, quite honestly, the most evil feeling there is. I'm guessing my life is going to be a short one.
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WEll, this was a nice honest article and It seemed to hit the spot. I have been invlolved with married women all my life and in fact have a penchant for them. No, I am not a libidinous jerk. I like to build on a friendship and then and take it to an emotional level.
Since I am not married and not keen to do it, and an emotional anchor is must for a healthy mind, I invest in these relationships.
I only manage to sustain 2-3 at any given point and try to ensure I speak truth to all of them, as I don't belive in cheating women who trust me with their otherwise socially healthy lives(married, so).
I travel all over india and would like to make a couple of more friends, who can trust me and earn my trust in return. M/31
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My wife had an affair with a supervisor at her job. He gave her a v.d. and still says she's fallen for him. I am devastated. I went through her phone because I was suspicious of the odd hours she would go out clubbing and straight to work. I found out shed had unprotected sex with him and thought that she was pregnant. I asked for a divorce but she asked me not to file yet. I've since moved out and wished her good luck because she doesn't know if she wanrlts to break it off. 15 years together 11now years married and she is so vague about our marriage. I've got the idea that she wants to see where the affair might go before letting me go. We still speak everyday but I can't even look at her knowing she's been with another man. Shattered ego and busted dreams. Im hurt. Embarrassed and angry. Ut I try not to show it any longer. Only in private.
My wife had an affair with a supervisor at her job. He gave her a v.d. and still says she's fallen for him. I am devastated. I went through her phone because I was suspicious of the odd hours she would go out clubbing and straight to work. I found out shed had unprotected sex with him and thought that she was pregnant. I asked for a divorce but she asked me not to file yet. I've since moved out and wished her good luck because she doesn't know if she wanrlts to break it off. 15 years together 11now years married and she is so vague about our marriage. I've got the idea that she wants to see where the affair might go before letting me go. We still speak everyday but I can't even look at her knowing she's been with another man. Shattered ego and busted dreams. Im hurt. Embarrassed and angry. Ut I try not to show it any longer. Only in private.
for me she is precious more than anything in life. she compromised, coz i never answered her clearly, but she told every one she loved me. including her husband, i will not forgive myself..never
n who said men are not tt committed to relationship... i belong to her or else no one. request all well wishers, to pray that i don't live long enough to run out of self respect and dignity, for pushing her back to the place, where she wanted to break free off. call it whatever, i honestly love her will always love her. her place is fixed, will never be taken by anyone. i will die alone, but not will not let her suffer anyway. she is my sweetheart my baby.. i will take all the pain.. will never give up.. i know her exit was not easy from current relationship, would never be, but she may suffer because of my heroics. so my actual heroic will to suffer quietly. and i will do it for her love... my love... for us... can't help being selfish...........
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and ya read one of the comments saying something about accomplishments in life.. n honestly it is an accomplishments, if someone, knows his/her limits, knows the whole hell can break on him/her, still chooses to be what the other person wants him to be... i am proud, i may do all nasty things to harm myself, but will still be proud, i did what my "WIFE", yes you read it right, i did what my wife expected me to do, take care of her, even at my own price. i'll not regret even if she never realize whatever i did was for her, coz i never wanted her to suffer, term it as weakness, but i spoke to her husband, and i know what he could have done to her, i'll better live a life cursing myself not trying enough for her rather than see her, being beaten up or tortured emotionally or physically... Love her. always from the bottom / core of my heart....
I'm in love with a married woman. She has 3 children from 2 different men. Why? I don't know...I'm just attracted to her personality. A person of real character. We have same view points in life, religion, family and children. I had to tell her my true feelings for her and her feelings are mutual. When I make love to her, I will always cherish and remember our encounter. I am confident that she will always be a part of my life whether as a partner or only a friend. Life is too short to wonder "what if" just live it with Love and Respect for the person you care for. Don't expect anything in return. Especially one's with family responsibilities (children's play, school activities & sports) Those are more important. There will always be time for your relationship to develop and who knows, you might have her at the end of day.
Love is always patient and kind; love is never jealous; love is not boastful or conceited, it is never rude and never seeks its own advantage, it does not take offense or store up grievances. Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but finds its joy in the truth. It is always ready to make allowances, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes.
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I have to say nah to this position. I was in a relationship with a married woman and to am married. She promised me children and wanted to have our child. She first told me she loved me and I fell for her hard. Then after 7 months, just started acting cold and wouldn't tell me why. I find out during this affair that she is sending naked pics to a bunch of men we work with and probably screwing them as well. Started ignoring me and broke my heart. Women are full of crap. This article is bs.
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Wow, I couldn't read anything past: "if a woman gets into an affair then you should realize that she must have been driven to it.". Reverse that statement to a man being driven to an affair and realise just how sexist it sounds. Women can't be the victim in every situation, make up your minds, are you stupid little girls who need a man's love to be a complete person or are you strong independent women who don't need approval. Pick a side.
I agree with Anthony!
I am married and have been into a long time crush on my ex-classmate, he also was a bit naughty at first, but I managed that ...not a complete success ,I still love him but at least I avoid the physical affair...
I asked him to stay away from me at the beginning when I realized I have feeling for him, he did...and till now we are so cold friend ,we can not have a simple conversation since he said he feel uncomfortable with me, and I cannot forget his charm!!!!
I think if he was a mature person he could help me manage this and keep the healthy friendship which is worthier but he rather to be my crush(some one I used to know)...
even if it was love i would never crossed the line until i divorced earlier...playing with two people life never go anywhere.
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